Tuesday, November 18, 2008

The Hearing II, part 2



In another case, the mother brought one of her other children to court, a cute girl, around 5 years old. The judge asked the mother, "you couldn't find someone to babysit for one day?" The law does not allow children in the courtroom, but the judge could not send the child out into the hallway unsupervised. So she sat, kicking the bench, as she heard the case.

The parents were fighting over a young boy. There were police investigations against each other, and social workers visiting the homes regularly. The mother claimed the father gave his child a cold shower to discipline him, and so there were investigations over abuse at his home. The father counter-claimed that the mother's new boyfriend physically abused his son, and made several police reports. The mother alleged they were lies, and that the father made his child say false things to the police.

Conflict breeds more conflict. My poor child is ruined.

Imagine the position of the son in this case. He lives with mom and has to please her. He can never accepting a stranger as a replacement for his father, but he tries as best as he can in order to make his mother happy. Of course, deep down inside, the child resents the mother for bringing this stranger into their lives.

He loves his father, and wants to see more of him. So the child is prepared to lie even though this may actually get him abused, by mom and boyfriend both. But he does it to make his father happy, hoping as a result, his father will chose to spend more time with him. The poor child.

Why do parents do this to children? Why do women bring children into this world only to make such beautiful, young lives hell?

Women are selfish.

More than anything else, women want to play god. They trick men into thinking they can play along, but then pull the rug under them. Mothers want power. But in order to rule as lord over their creations, they have to get rid of a child's father.

This explains a glaring contradiction. On the one hand, mothers claim men are terrible, irresponsible and incapable to taking care of children. But on the other hand, mothers are never alone. There is usually a man around the house, but never the children's father. If men were so crazy, why have one around children at all?

Funny enough, after a few years of playing god with the new man, out the door he goes. Next victim please.

Men and women who find things to do with their lives, have other options besides children to give their lives meaning. These couples are the ones more likely to adopt and share power over children. People need to find self-fulfillment without this god complex. Mothers are destroying so many children as a result of these unthoughtful genetic experiments.